Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Blueberries, Braces and a Birthday!

Maria is at sleep away camp this week, so I'm trying to plan special mommy-daughter things to do with Anna every day so this week is a little special for her, too. Monday we went to see the Kit Kittredge movie. So many of the girls in the theater brought their doll with them to watch the film, including us. It was very cute and the movie was very good. 

Yesterday, Anna and I went blueberry picking at a local farm. [ And yes, for all you wise crackers, there are farms in NJ... its not just all the industry and dockyards you see from the plane at Liberty Airport, a.k.a Newark Airport or from watching The Sopranos. We are the Garden State after all. Um, gee. Defensive much? lol ;) ]We picked about 4 lbs. of blueberries in about 45 minutes. We would have stayed longer to get enough berries for homemade jam, but it got really hot and we started melting. Hopefully we won't eat them all right out of the fridge before I have time to make a yummy treat out of them. I'm thinking homemade blueberry ice cream or a blueberry tart with vanilla ice cream. 

Here are a few shots of my Anna in the blueberry field.  Can you see the bushes loaded with blueberries? The branches were literally sagging to the ground with ripened fruit. 

Today, I took her to the orthodontist to get her braces put on. See? Something special every day. Okay, so this one isn't her favorite outing so far this week. Not mine either. Now both my girls will have braces for the next year and my monthly payment to the orthodontist is now $310 and that's even after the deductible. *cry*  I did get her a happy meal and a $1 sundae on the way home, though. That's special! :) 

I would love to post a picture of her with her new braces-she looks quite adorable, but still won't let me take a picture of her. When we got home, she checked herself out in the mirror and turned to me with a small smile and said, "I'm pretty." Isn't that so sweet? It really made my day. She is a big worrier (I mean, big!), and I imagine braces are a tough thing for a young one to handle. They can be uncomfortable and obviously there's this whole thing about appearances. So to hear her say something so positive about herself in a situation like this was music to my ears.  

This afternoon I am baking my father in law a birthday cake. He is 83 years old today! Isn't that awesome? [Remind me how awesome that is the next time I complain about turning ffff fffforty later this fall, k?] He was a teenager in the Philippines during World War II and hid from the Japanese in the mountains with his parents and 10 brothers and sisters, along with several cousins. It was there in the forest, when he and one of his brothers decided to take a days walk to a village to try to buy some sugar for their mother, that he stepped on a Japanese land mine that exploded and imbedded shrapnel in his eyes for a few weeks before he got medical attention and rendering him legally blind. The stories of what he and his family did to survive are simultaneously heart wrenching and uplifting. The reverence he still holds for the United States forces for coming to rescue the Philippines from Japan during that time are inspiring. It is no wonder, really, that thirty or so years later he immigrated to the US with his wife and only child (my husband) and wholeheartedly embraced becoming an American citizen. My mother in law passed away about a year and a half ago and so due to his near blindness and a debilitating stroke he had in 2000, my father in law now lives with us so we can take care of him. While I know he is happy to be with us, I also know he misses his wife terribly (she died the day before their 45th wedding anniversary), so I'm trying to make this birthday a sweet day for him. Figuratively and literally. 

I think his favorite graham cracker cake with the whipped cream and banana filling will do the trick! :D 


  1. I am drooling about all this food you are talking about.
    And yeah, I ate 2 pints of blueberries today. :D

  2. aww, c...
    You all have been through so much this past year or so. It's wonderful to hear how you want to make his birthday special for him!

    Many blessings to you and yours!

  3. p.s. just saw a great looking recipe with blueberries in it!

    here's a link:
    Blueberry Oat Bars

  4. I'm drooling, too! My birthday is coming up (very soon), will you make me one of those cakes?

  5. Awwwww, I'm switching back from the yummy food (no blueberry jam *sniff sniff*, but sundae...mmmm) and overly sweet hearing about your dad-in-law. My grandparents were in China during that time so, yes, it's incredibly heartwrenching to hear, but also amazing at their strength.

    Ice cream, ice cream. Graham crackers and ice cream maybe? :D

  6. I love that you're doing all these fun things with A. I'm sure she's loving having you all to herself. I think it's adorable that she said she was pretty after she got her braces. Most kids would say the opposite. :)

    I loved hearing about your father-in-law and what he went through. Simply amazing. I know it's a day late but please wish him a happy birthday from me. :) You're a good d-i-l!

  7. That is great she's handling her braces well. Devin had a dental check up today. Still no cavities! Woot! But he's going to need braces too. Maybe. His front teeth protrude from sucking his thumb and the doc said the orhto we go to is going to have to move his teeth before they put on the braces. We are going to schedule a consult with the ortho and see what he says. The dentist said maybe moving the teeth then wearing a retainer may work providing when more teeth grow in they come in straight.

  8. Oh, that is so sad and moving about your Father in law and his family. What a story! And what a horrible, senseless way for a boy to be injured. His family must have been frantic, not being able to get him proper attention. And what a great daughter in law you are!

    And I loved the sweet photos of your girl.

  9. Yummmy blueberries!
    And so good for you, too!
    Blueberries are one of the fruits that EVERYONE in our family loves, so I actually have a lot of blueberry recipes. And I usually pick 10+ lbs. each July and freeze them to use for smoothies, pancakes, and baking throughout the year.

    Thank you, friends, for your very kind and thoughtful words about my father-in-law. The last 18 months have been difficult. I think it will get better when our addition-renovation is done and we have more appropriate living space for everyone.

    AmyC :: I didn't mention in my post, but Anna had a palate expander mouth appliance for the last 11 months to widen her palate. Once there was more room, she lost a few stubborn baby teeth and they came in nice and straight. Her new braces are only on the top four teeth, so its not so bad so far. Good luck with Devin.

  10. Ahh, my Dentist was going over different procedures the Ortho could do and he mentioned the palate expander. I still need to make the dang appointment. I am the worst with making those.

  11. Your father-in-law's story reminds me of my grandfather (although mine wasn't injured). How lovely that you're doing something for his birthday.

    I just realised...I've never been fruit picking!


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