Sunday, August 11, 2013

An Asian Adventure


I'm going to try to squeeze a little bit of info about every place we visited in this post, but I'm also going to post about all the food tomorrow otherwise this post would be even longer than it is--which already took me days to put together, and I don't want you to get bored. Plus food is fun and deserves its own post!

Our trip to Asia was a full 16 days during which we flew 7 times in all from beginning to end. Yes, seven. It was a little nerve-wracking. And overall pretty exhausting, but definitely worth it. As you may or may not know, my husband is Filipino so we've been planning for years for the right time to visit the Philippines so I could experience his homeland and also so our daughters could experience from where half their heritage comes (he immigrated to the US in the 70s and was naturalized shortly thereafter). We decided this was the year to do it since the girls are old enough to appreciate and remember this trip but not too old that we couldn't force them one more time to go on a long family vacation. So that's how our 2013 Asian Adventure vacation came to be. Huge kudos goes to my husband who planned everything about this trip from start to finish. He uses TripAdvisor for a lot of his research on hotels and things to do, in case you were looking for tips on planning your next trip. The only thing I did for this trip was secure a house and pet sitter, schedule the bills and make sure we all got the vaccines and medications we needed before we left.

THE PHILIPPINES!
Our first two flights were from JFK airport in New York to Narita airport in Tokyo, Japan (flight #1) where we switched planes and continued on to Manila, Philippines (flight #2) for a total travel time of 19 1/2 hours not counting the three hour delay in JFK before take off. What a long day! We got picked up at our house at 10 am on Saturday July 20th and landed in Manila after 11 pm on Sunday July 21st. The time difference makes it look worse than it was, but we still lost a day somewhere in there.
Ready for take-off!
Photo by: Maria Alba [Maria Alba Photography]
This trip to the Philippines was my husband's first time in 39 years to return to his native country since he immigrated to the US when he was a young boy. Most of our time spent in Manila and a neighboring suburb was for him to reconnect with his childhood and visit with cousins and second cousins. It was so nice! The first day, we walked from our hotel to the church where Gabe's parents were married in 1961!
Gabe's parents were married here in 1961.

Gabe's second cousin (the daughter of his first cousin?) met us at our hotel and walked with us to Rizal Park in Manila, which is dedicated to the Philippine statesman and martyr, Dr. José Rizal, a pacifist who spoke up against the Spanish during their occupation and was later executed by them. Rizal's execution actually sparked an even stronger rebellion from the Philippine people which became the beginning of their revolution against Spain. Very interesting!

Rizal Execution Memorial
0 km marker
Manila, Philippines
We then met up with more of this cousin's family and we enjoyed their hospitality and company immensely as they drove us around Manila to Fort Santiago and a local restaurant for lunch.


A photo given to Gabe by his cousin.
This photo was taken just before my husband
and his parents immigrated to the US in 1974.
I love this photo!
Fort Santiago is a museum and public park that showcases a stone fortress that was built at the turn of the 17th century! Many parts of the fort are crumbling, which only added to the reality of its history, having sustained tremendous damage in WWII when it was occupied by the Japanese and reclaimed by American and Filipino forces at the end of the war. Sadly, hundreds of American prisoners of war died in this fortress from suffocation or hunger while being held in extremely tight quarters in the dungeons before the liberation from the Japanese. This was also the time of the Manila Massacre during which Japanese forces committed atrocities against the civilians of Manila resulting in the deaths of 100,000 innocent people. Horrific.


Exploring Fort Santiago with family
and an armed guard!

Multigenerational cousin portrait
The following day we visited places that my husband lived when he was a child, his schools, his parents' places of work and so on either in Manila or the nearby urban suburb Quezon City. I think visiting these places was more sentimental than he expected!
My husband's childhood home 40+ years ago!
That evening we visited with another set of cousins for dinner, which was so fun. We hadn't seen them since they visited the US many years ago! Spending time with my husband's relatives was the highlight of the Manila area to me.
Little cousin love! xo
The sight seeing was nice, but honestly, I was a little overwhelmed or unnerved by the constant stares from people (we really stood out) and vast extent of poverty seen everywhere throughout the city. So many sad images are still swimming in my head. If I were a good journalistic photographer, I would have taken photos to show you, but instead I was absorbing it all and lost in thought..

The most popular public transportation in the Philippines, or at least in Manila, is by jeepney. Jeepney are WWII US Military jeeps that have been converted to small passenger buses. The are covered, but have permanently open side windows and the back is completely open as well. In fact, that is where passengers climb on and off the jeepney!

A jeepney in Manila, Philippines
The back of a jeepney
in Quezon City, Philippines
We then flew from Manila south to another island in the Philippines to Dumaguete City (flight #3). The airport was so tiny! One runway and a small two room building for the terminal. One room for arrivals and one room for departures. We walked across the runway from the plane to the terminal. A far cry from JFK airport in NYC! This is the city where Gabe's father (and all of his 13 siblings) grew up. It's a much, much smaller city than Manila and I guess with fewer people it felt a bit more socio-economically balanced. Our hotel was right on the sea and we were treated to some serene yet pretty spectacular views. The sunrise.. oh my goodness.
Sunrise from our hotel window - NO PHOTO EDITING!
Dumaguete City, Philippines
July 2013
I had to post another one.. so beautiful!

So serene.. 
coconut trees!
Someone told me that Dumaguete City is the motorbike capital of the Philippines and I am not surprised by that claim at all. By my observation, 95% of the people get around by motorbike or motorbike tricycles and 5% drive cars. Motorbike tricycles are made up of motorbike that is rigged with covered seating for 2-4+ people over a third wheel. Kind of like a rickshaw attached to the side of a motorbike. No one wears helmets at all there.. not on regular bikes or motorbikes. Most people wear flip flops riding motorbikes whether they are driving or a passenger. Entire families ride one motorbike.. a child between the dad and the handle bars, mom on back and a baby in between mom and dad with just an arm around the baby. Sometimes I saw ladies sitting side saddle on a the back of a motorbike holding a baby with one arm. I'm not kidding. My heart was in my throat the whole time, I felt sick. Oh and to make it more heart stopping.. there are only a handful of traffic lights in the entire city. I never saw a single stop sign or yield sign or pretty much any other traffic sign aside from those few traffic lights. Vehicles just approach an intersection and go, weaving around everyone going in different directions honking at pedestrians to get out of the way.. even at elderly people shuffling across the street! SO FREAKING CRAZY! We had no choice but to hire a tricycle taxi thing twice.. fortunately with all four of us as passengers we made the darn thing heavy so the driver just couldn't go fast. I think it forced him to be more cautious, but still.. I won't mind if I never ride one of those things again!
family transportation 
Tricycle Motorbike Taxi

riding a tricycle motorbike taxi
I posted two videos of us riding these motorbike taxis on my instagram account. I think you can watch them HERE and HERE.

We spent part of a day at a local beach which was relaxing but very hot. It wasn't quite as clean as I expected.. it seems no one cares about picking up any trash in the public area, which was so sad to see. We walked along the beach to the waterfront of a resort and it was much nicer. The resort grounds were pretty and well kept but pretty empty, probably because it's the middle of the school year there now. We ordered snacks from the resort's outdoor restaurant right next to a gorgeous pool. It was very relaxing!
Photo by Christine Alba
Editing by Maria Alba
Later we bought an umbrella in Dumaguete because we needed shade protection when we were walking around. We ended up using it on our whole trip and even bought a second one in Tokyo. We also carried around folded fans to fan ourselves. It was that hot!

The next day we spent some time visiting my father-in-law's college, Silliman University, where staff there still knew some of my husband's younger relatives! We also visited the cemetery where my husband's grandparents are buried. It turned out to be touching for all of us, especially since the inscription on their tomb mentioned grandchildren and great-grandchildren, which then includes Maria and Anna. I'm glad they felt a connection to the Philippines and the family that lived there.

On our last day here, we hired a driver to take us further up the island where we hired a boat to take us dolphin watching. We were the only ones to book the tour that day, so we had the boat and the crew to ourselves! I felt kind of spoiled, but it was pretty nice letting the day flex to our own schedule without having to wait for other tourists for anything on the boat. Before we set out, the tour guide took us to a market where we bought food for lunch that the crew prepared for us right on the boat!



Heading out to see for dolphin watching!
We saw a lot of dolphin swimming alongside our boat and all around us.. but it wasn't easy getting that National Geographic shot! It was quite thrilling to see these beautiful animals in their natural habitat doing their own thing but also being curious enough about humans to come closer and take a look.

Photo by Maria Alba [Maria Alba Photography]
Anna felt seasick- feeling dizzy and queasy but she held it together. She napped a bit on the boat as we left the open sea with the dolphins and headed for a sandbar to swim. This sandbar is in the sea pretty far from land, but check this out... there are cottages on pilings that you can rent!
Cottages for rent in the middle of the sea!
So pretty, right? During low tide, these cottages sit on their own little sandbar beach! We swam around the boat for a little while (water was only chest deep here..not low tide) and eventually got out when we started to get stung by invisible jellyfish tentacles that were coming in with the tide. Ouch.

The boat then took us to a mangrove forest. The boat docked at this little hut and we walked a long boardwalk from the sea into the mangrove forest. It was so still and quiet except for the sounds of bugs, a few birds and water lapping up along the pier and the sound of our feet on the boardwalk.

Walking through a mangrove forest.

How a mangrove forest grows.. see the little seedlings?
Later that night we had dinner at Gabe's cousin's house. This was my first time meeting this family and of course, we adored each other right away. ;) They prepared a lot of food for us!

The following day we flew from the tiny airport in Dumaguete City to Cebu City in the Philippines (flight #4) and then from Cebu to Hong Kong (flight #5). Only two more to go. eep.
walking to our next plane..

boarding our plane. eep.
HONG KONG!
Hong Kong is a magnificent city with amazing views! First of all, we stayed in the YMCA Hong Kong while we were there. Definitely nothing like my YMCA at home aside from the smell of pool chlorine in the lobby. It was a busy place but the hallways and rooms were very quiet and well tended. Also, the breakfast buffet was fantastic! So yummy!

YMCA Hong Kong!
The YMCA Hong Kong is a little fancier
than my YMCA at home. yeah...
We were only in Hong Kong two days. We walked along the harbor and took in the sights, went shopping in Sham Shui Po area (mostly electronics stuff), took the tram to Victoria Peak for spectacular views of the city during the day and night and visited a beautiful, tranquil shrine in the middle of Kowloon. We loved it and would have spent more time here, but it was almost unbearably hot. There are a few other sites we longed to visit but we didn't have enough time.. at least now we know what to do first thing when we come back!

Keeping cool.

Hong Kong Harbor

Avenue of the Stars tribute to Bruce Lee

Skyline view of Hong Kong from Victoria Peak

Dramatic black and white of Hong Kong
from Victoria Peak 
High-end shopping in Hong Kong
Love the red taxis
Shopping in Sham Shui Po

The beautiful and serene Nan Lian Garden
Hong Kong

JAPAN! 
Next we flew to Tokyo, Japan (flight #6) for the final phase of our Asia vacation. Japan was so nice and I learned so many new things while visiting. Our hotel was lovely.. very comfortable and while it was compact, it was still simultaneously efficient and luxurious. The shower was wonderful and the electronic toilets were.. adventurous! Quite a contrast to the squatting public toilets in Japan, but both are actually very sanitary. Enough of this TMI topic! ha ha!

On our first morning in Tokyo we struggled a bit to figure out how to use the subway because everything was in Japanese writing (not romaji which is the romanization of Japanese words) and no one in the stations spoke English! My husband's Japanese audio course was still tremendously helpful throughout our whole trip, though! Eventually we figured it out and bought our daily subway passes, found a subway map with romaji words for the stops and were on our way! By time we used the subway a second time, we were pros. Honestly, the Tokyo subway is actually way easier to use than NYC subways! I'm not kidding.

Our first tourist attraction in Tokyo was the Senso-ji Temple, the which is the oldest Buddhist temple in Tokyo having been completed in 645 CE and is dedicated to the Goddess of Mercy. It's quite famous.. maybe you've seen pictures of it before. There are lots of little shops and booths selling food and souvenirs along the path between the gate and the shrine. It was very crowded and very hot, but we had fun buying little gifts for friends there and snacking on food. Of course, we also visited the shrine and other buildings there and learned about the dedications and prayer customs.

Kaminarimon - The outer gate to Senso-ji Shrine
Some cute girls dressed in harajuku style passing out flyers for which I could not figure out.. I couldn't decide if it was for something racy or not..

Dressed up harajuku style
One night we took the subway to the Roppongi Hills area of Tokyo which is a popular, kind of high end shopping area and went to the movies!
Photogenic skyscraper in Roppongi Hills
We saw Monsters University; it was in English with Japanese subtitles. There's a new Hayao Miyazaki movie in theaters there titled The Wind Rises (translated), which would have been our first choice, but since it's only in Japanese that wouldn't have worked well for us. ;) Here's the movie poster, though:

The Wind Rises
Studio Ghibli Movie
2013
Can't wait for it to come to the US!

Are you familiar with Hayao Miyazaki/Studio Ghibli films? Maybe you've heard of Spirited Away or My Neighborhood Totoro? Those are probably his two most popular films in the US. If not, get yourself to the library, Netflix or AppleTV and watch one! So good.

Speaking of films, have you seen Jiro Dreams of Sushi? It's a documentary on this man named Jiro who is supposedly the best sushi chef in the world. It costs a small fortune ($300 US per person) to eat at his small restaurant that is located in the Ginza Station in Tokyo. We found the restaurant and saw him sitting at a table waiting for his next customers! It's kind of funny, but we were pretty excited. Check it out:
Sukiyabashi Jiro
"Jiro Dreams of Sushi" Documentary
Food critics best sushi in the world!
By the way, in case you think it's strange that there is a high end sushi restaurant in a subway station, it's not that strange in Japan. Several of the big subway stations are host to some pretty fancy shopping store from fancy bakeries, clothing, perfume, handbags, and more. It's like a small mall. Pretty interesting.

We also visited the East Gardens of the Imperial Palace, which I have to say were not very impressive at all. Only one small area near a pond was well taken care of and nice to look at. Everything else was just plain and not even weeded well. Now you know not to waste your time going there.. visit something different instead.
East Gardens of the Imperial Palace
Tokyo, Japan
The next day we ventured a bit out of Tokyo city to Mitaka where we had tickets to attend the Studio Ghibli Museum! Again, this probably means nothing to you unless you are familiar with Hayao Miyazaki's films. We had so much fun visiting this little museum even though the plaques at all the displays were in Japanese only so we probably missed out on some small details. Oh well.. we still loved it. There were Totoro signs in the town pointing pedestrians from the train station to the museum. So cute. Photos were not allowed inside the museum so I don't have much...

Walking to Studio Ghibli Museum 
Almost there! 

We made it! See the big Totoro in the window! 

Posing with a statue of a soldier from Laputa
From "Castle In the Sky."
Vine covered Studio Ghibli Museum
Photo by: Maria Alba [Maria Alba Photography]
Little bits of whimsy and magic everywhere
at Studio Ghibli Museum
Mikata, Japan
Photo by: Maria Alba [Maria Alba Photography]
In our attempts to spot Mt. Fuji from somewhere in the city, we ventured to the Tokyo Metropolitan Government building (TMG) where we learned there is 360 degree observation deck at the top of both towers that is open to the public for FREE! This was an awesome travel tip from to my blogging-instagram-Japan loving friend In Spring it is the Dawn! {Thank you so much!xo} Unfortunately it was way too hazy so visibility was low and we couldn't see very far. Still, we had some nice views of the cityscape from there.. just not Mt. Fuji.
View of Tokyo from the FREE Observation Deck
at the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building
Consequently, there was a special art exhibit taking place in the observation deck for the survivors of The Hiroshima and Nagasaki Atomic Bombing, which was so incredibly moving. Maria and I really took the time to look at all the artwork and and read all the quotes from survivors who created paintings of their experiences to help them work through their grief. In no time both of us were in tears. My youngest told me she saw an elderly Japanese man take a photo of me looking at the art and wiping my tears.. I hope seeing me be so moved by this exhibit helped him in some way. I'd like to think it did. In the meantime, another gentleman approached Maria and started chatting with her. He asked her to write her reaction to the exhibit on a form so they could document it and share with other survivors. She obliged him and while they were talking, he revealed that he himself is a survivor. It was an unexpected, but rewarding experience for us at the top of the TMG building!

My daughter with her new friend,
a Nagasaki A-Bomb survivor.
1000 Paper Cranes for healing.. 
Early the next morning we left Tokyo on a speedy Shinkansen bullet train for our last vacation destination.. Kyoto, Japan!

On the Shinkansen Bullet Train
From Tokyo to Kyoto
Once we arrived in Kyoto we walked about 1/2 mile in the hot sun with our luggage in tow to our hotel. We did this a lot, it seems. It was too early to check in, but our hotel held our luggage for us and we headed back to the station to catch a bus for our first Kyoto activity which was a Japanese cooking class! My husband found this great opportunity through TripAdvisor and I'm so glad he did--I loved this experience. If you're ever in Kyoto, I highly recommend you check this out. It's called Haru Cooking Class and is a small group cooking class taught by a Japanese man and his wife in their Kyoto home. They also have an adorable little daughter who entertained us immensely.

I'm going to share more detail about the cooking class in a separate vacation food post tomorrow.. so please come back and look for that!

After our cooking class, I convinced my husband to head back to the hotel so I could take the nap I so desperately needed at this point. I was fighting a little headache from lack of sleep and it was my time of the month so I really needed to lie down for a little while. Later that evening, the girls stayed in with room service and Gabe and I went out for dinner by ourselves. Imagine.. date night in Kyoto! ;)
Kyoto Tower at night
The following morning we set out with all day bus passes and toured a few shrines throughout the city. First up was The Golden Pavilion, another famous Japanese shrine of which you may be familiar.

Kinkaku-ji
The Golden Pavilion
The second temple we visited was the Eikando Temple. This shrine had larger, more wooded grounds and was much less crowded. It was so nice walking around all the prayer houses and pavilions and being surrounded by so much green! Maple trees and moss... it was really pretty. We climbed a bunch of stairs to the Taho-to pavilion where we could see the Kyoto skyline.

Everything is so green at Eikando Temple

The Taho-to Pavilion
Eikando Temple


The Kyoto Skyline from Taho-to Pavilion

Looking up at the Taho-to Pavilion
from lower ground in Eikando Temple
We were hot, thirsty and exhausted but decided to power on and head for one last temple. It took a little sense of adventure to get there because we missed the one hourly bus that travels that route by less than 5 minutes. Fortunately, a local Japanese woman standing near us at the stop figured out where we were trying to go and assured us that bus 81 would take us close enough to walk. It was a leap of faith in communication because she didn't speak English and we barely spoke Japanese, and the bus route wasn't even on our map, but she insisted so we boarded bus 81 with her and she told us when to get off. Then she pointed down a street and sent us on our way! With a little help from the GPS in our phone, we found the shrine without too much trouble.

I'm so glad we took the chance and followed the kind Japanese woman onto the bus, because the Fushimi Inari temple, which is a Shinto shrine dedicated to the Shinto God of rice, was spectacular! Intricate and elaborate with so many torii (gate-like structures). It sounds like it would be showy, but really.. it evoked a sense of awe and peace rather than grandiosity. Well in my humble western opinion, anyway. We really enjoyed this shrine! There was a lot to explore and because we were there so late in the day (just after 5 pm) there was so few people there--what a treat! It was nice to take a lot of photos without other people in the picture! ;) The grounds for this shrine are pretty extensive, with lots of hiking trails and torii scattered throughout the woods. If I go back to Kyoto, I wouldn't mind visiting Fushimi Inari shrine again.

Entrance to Fushimi Inari Shrine

A group of Japanese youth dressed in traditional
clothing, washing their hands before
entering the prayer house.

Posing with sass!

Walking down one of the paths lined
with 100s of torii

A view of many torii through the woods.

Another view of the many torii
After walking around the prayer houses and paths through the many, many toriis, we headed back to the hotel. One thing about Japan that I forgot to mention is the abundance of vending machines everywhere. Definitely at train stations and bus stops but even in other places a pedestrian would venture. Well they certainly came in handy for us.. we were always thirsty on this trip! Every once in a while you can also find a photo booth in the vicinity of a vending machine. Remember those? You'd think it was an old fashioned thing, but we actually saw people using them!

A photobooth and vending machine..
vending machines are EVERYWHERE in Japan!
That night the girls were zonked. They just couldn't budge another foot so we set them up with McDonalds take out and instructions to shower and settle in while Gabe and I went out on another date in Kyoto, this time for sushi.

Waiting for our shinkansen bullet train back to Tokyo.
The following morning we took a shinkansen bullet train back to Tokyo and then an express train directly to Narita airport. We just barely made the connection to the airport train. We saw the train come in as we descended the escalator to the track. Trains in Japan are extremely punctual so we are lucky we made it! Phew!

This was our last flight of the trip (flight #7) which took off from Tokyo on Sunday, August 4th at 3:00 pm. After a 12 hour flight we landed in JFK airport in New York at 2:55 pm. We gained 5 minutes like magic! I guess it sort of makes up for losing time going to the Philippines 16 days earlier. Only the jet lag going this way through us for a loop and we're still not straightened out!

Sayonara Japan!
I'm exhausted!!!
So that's our Asian Adventure! Thank you so much for reading all about it.. I hope it wasn't too long and you enjoyed it! If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I hope I've inspired you to visit one of these countries someday.

Also, please check back very soon for my post all about the FOOD on our Asian adventure! 

xo

Monday, August 5, 2013

Jet Lagged

There's no place like your own bed
after 2+ weeks away from home!
We're home from our awesome Asia vacation safe and sound and trying to recover from jet lag. I hope it doesn't take too long to adjust .. I was in a fog all day today between about six loads of laundry and I never made it to the grocery store. Our fridge is SO empty! I thought I'd go to sleep early tonight in hopes of waking up cured in the morning but now I'm wide awake and it's already almost 11:30 pm!

Thank you to those of you who followed my trip on instagram. It was a lot of fun sharing photos and having a little interaction with all of you while I was away even though I couldn't always get back online to reply to your comments. I'm going to work on getting some photos and interesting tidbits about our trip up this week, but in the meantime,
What's going on with you? 
Any news to share? 
What have you been reading?

I planned to do a lot of reading on the 19+ hour flight(s) to the Philippines and the 12 hours back to New York, but I barely read at all on this trip! I didn't feel so great on the flight out, so I watched movies and tried to sleep instead.

BOOKS I READ ON VACATION:
While on land, however, I finished my re-read of Demon Angel by Meljean Brook as part of my Guardians series re-read - series catch up I plan to do this summer in preparation for the final book, Guardian Demon which releases TOMORROW! (August 6, 2013) This was actually my 3rd or 4th time I've read Demon Angel and it gets better and better every time I read it. It's five star keeper book for me, no doubt about it. Of course, as soon as I finished it, I regretted not packing the sequel Demon Moon for my trip!

I also read Kitchen by Japanese author Banana Yoshimoto, which I enjoyed very much even though it made me cry on the flight between Hong Kong and Japan. Kind of embarrassing, but oh well. I think I cried pretty discreetly even if I went through several tissues. ;)

On the trip home from Japan I started reading To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee and I'm really enjoying it so far. I didn't realize it was written from a child's point of view. Anyway, I'm looking forward to finishing it this week. I also started reading Demon Moon last night after we got home from the airport. I just couldn't help it! Of course I'm loving it.. Colin and Savi are two of my favorite characters in this series. This story is so unique, dramatic with an incredible amount of character depth, not to mention impeccable world building and series arc development going on in this one. Actually the same goes for Demon Angel but for some reason I'm really drawn to Savi's character.

MOVIES I WATCHED ON VACATION:
I watched an interesting mix of movies on the two flights from and back to the US and we even went to the movies one night in Tokyo! The other flights between cities and countries were too short to show films. (We had a total of six flights on this trip. Oh Lord, was it nerve-wracking!) :/

1. Jack the Giant Slayer. A twist on Jack and the Beanstalk, a predictable fairy tale.

2. Safe Haven. Based on the book by Nicholas Sparks. I've never read his books, but I enjoyed the movie even if I found it predictable and not as fully developed as I think it could have been.

3. Monsters University. We saw this in a movie theater in Tokyo. The movie was in English with Japanese subtitles. Hee hee.

4. Beautiful Creatures. Based on the YA novel of same name that I read a few years ago. Well done, pretty true to the book with a suitable, non-perfect ending. I liked it.

5. Katy Perry: Part of Me. My daughters and I watched this simultaneously. We were cute and we bonded over this documentary even though we had headphones on. Of course we all like Katy Perry a little more now that we watched this. ;)

6. Painted Skin: Resurrection. A Chinese fantasy action film that I just now discovered is the 2011 sequel to the 2008 film Painted Skin. I guess it can be watched as a stand alone because I didn't feel like I was missing anything. If you like Chinese fantasy action films, give this one a go. Just the right combination of fantasy, action, romance and tragedy to suit me.

Have you seen any of these movies?

Hope to catch up with you this week! :)

Saturday, July 20, 2013

Going places!

One of my husband's cousins from the Philippines sent us this video on facebook to help get us excited for our upcoming trip. IT WORKED!

  Aaaahhhhhh! I can't believe we're really going there!

Oh and my Japanese lessons? They fell on the waaaaaaayside. Thank goodness my husband has been keeping up. He's going to be the voice for all four of us in Japan.

Friday, July 19, 2013

REVIEW: The Wind Up Bird Chronicle by Haruki Murakami


The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle is the second Haruki Murakami book I've read, and while I have mixed feelings about this one, I have a lot of admiration for his writing and still intend to read more of his work. This book was not originally on my Murakami radar, but I decided to read it when Ti at Book Chatter decided to host a Wind-Up Bird read along. I pretty much missed the group aspect of the read-along, but at least I read it. I finished reading this back in May at which time I wrote most of this post. I finally revisited it yesterday and finalized my thoughts.

I've labeled this post as a review, but it's more of a collection of my thoughts on the book. I guess I'm reluctant to say with confidence that this write up is a review because I honestly don't feel qualified to react to it objectively or to even accurately describe the book's premise! It's so unlike anything I've read before -- an ambitious piece of literature that I sometimes felt challenged to comprehend.

My very simplified plot description of The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle (which takes place in modern day Japan, if you didn't already know) is this: A man named Toru Okada lives a simple life with his wife of six years, Kumiko, and their cat. Toru is recently unemployed and not really sure what he wants to do about it. Their cat goes missing and Kumiko implores Toru to find him. On his search for the cat, he befriends a teenage girl in their neighborhood and a lonely old World War II Lieutenant who is haunted by his past, consults with an unusual medium about the whereabouts of the cat and then his wife unexpectedly disappears. Toru's search efforts shift from the cat to that of Kumiko and soon a string of strange events occur that even he doesn't understand, spiraling his life in very bizarre and surreal directions. He spends a lot of time contemplating these events and his life in general at the bottom of a dry well.

If I had to name one major theme of this book, I would say it is a study in fate versus free will or perhaps more accurately, the melding of the two philosophies. How absolute is fate? and how powerful is man's free will that he can thwart fate and carve his own path through life? Murakami explores this quite elaborately and in a fairly abstract way that was often difficult for me to piece together.

The Wind-Up Bird is a book you could talk on and on about but still never fully articulate exactly what it's really about, what it all means or how it made you feel. To quote Toru Okada himself, I frequently asked this book to just "name something already. Name something concrete." Toru was always wanting a concrete explanation--something tangible that he could relate to or hang on to so he could understand what someone was talking about. I felt like that a lot myself while reading this book!

Murakami's characters live in reality as we know it, their imaginations AND in some "other version of reality." An "other" place in which they interact with each other in a very surreal way. The word 'phantasmagorical' is probably the best singular descriptor of The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle (I've always wanted to use that word). 'Perplexingly phantasmagorical' if I were to use two words.

I'm very glad I read the book--it's a fascinating, albeit often slightly nightmarish journey of an ordinary man. The writing is excellent and is nearly effortless to read as Murakami has a natural talent for writing with simple language, realistic characters doing every day things with which we're all familiar. Yet at the same time, strange things happen that make the reader question what is reality and what might be a dream, hallucination or something "other." Murakami strings together a series of events and repercussions that transform the story into something of epic and thought provoking complexity that can be interpreted by readers in an infinite number of ways. It all sounds really 'out there,' and quite frankly, it is.

Yet at the same time it is literature that is accessible to any reader because in the end, the interpretation is left open to the individual. There is no wrong or right interpretation or analysis of this book.

Some specifics about the book that kept me from really enjoying it.. Throughout most of this 600+ page book, I felt that there were clues on every page that I ought to be mentally cataloguing for future reference as the story progressed or for connecting with events that already occurred. Important insights and connections between characters past and present.. events in reality and in "the other side".. I had a hard time putting my finger on all of it.

There are many components of this book that still stump me. At the end of a chapter, I'd often find myself thinking, "Okay so what is the point of THIS chapter?" Some chapters definitely felt more relevant than others and but those that felt more irrelevant to me? Some of those I never figured out how they contributed to the whole at all.. why or how was that connected or how deep was the connection?

For example, the recurrence of the baseball bat. Introduced in one of the zoo massacre chapters, what was the point of that entire scenario other than to show a baseball bat that would become important in another chapter, by another person in another time. It wasn't even suggested that it was the SAME baseball bat. Was it just another thread in which Tarou Okada was connected to the zoo veterinarian who was Cinnamon's father? Or is it more symbolic than that? Was the purpose of the zoo-baseball bat massacre JUST to make a later connection with a baseball bat and if so, was the elaborate display necessary? Personally, I would have been happier never having read that chapter and maybe one or two others as well, but that's just personal comfort level, I think. Needless to say, I kept thinking I was missing some great significance of the recurrence of the baseball bat other than it connected people and time. Was there more to it? I don't know.. And maybe, just maybe, that uncertainty in me as a reader was Murakami's intention. Well, perhaps not striving for it, but I think Murakami would be totally cool with readers not quite making everything in this book "fit." Because it's not supposed to. He wants things to be left open-ended for readers to speculate, imagine and interpret in their own ways, relevant to our own thoughts and personal life experiences.

So how do I feel about this book? I have mixed feelings. I finished this book with a feeling of "Huh. I guess that's it." Not the usual sentiment I imagine most authors desire, yet for some reason, I actually think that could be what Murakami was striving for. Or if that was not his intention, I think he'd find it totally acceptable for readers to not quite make everything they read "fit" just right. Imagine looking a jigsaw puzzle, the image of a piece of abstract art. Now imagine random pieces of this puzzle missing.. it's still a piece of art. Still something worthy of interpretation and admiration, maybe even more so had all the pieces fell into place. Can you see that? THAT is what this book is like to me.

I gave The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle 3 out of 5 stars on goodreads-- 'I liked it."

I may not have understood everything, particularly the excessively surreal aspects of the book and some chapters were quite disturbing and in my opinion didn't significantly add to the quality or progress of the story, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle certainly gave me a lot to think about!


Thursday, July 18, 2013

To Kill A Mockingbird Read-Along

Much to my own surprise, I've never read To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee. I don't know how this escaped the attention of my honors high school literature teachers, but there you have it.

When I got wind that Adam was contemplating a re-read and perhaps a read-along, I jumped at the opportunity to fill in the gap in my classic lit experience.

The plan is to read the book in just 17 days, which sounds doable, but with a busy vacation upon me in just a few days, a 12 hour time difference between Asia and the US and uncertain Internet access, my participation will likely be limited. However, I've got some long flights ahead of me so I'll be toting my 50th Anniversary copy of To Kill A Mockingbird along in hopes of finishing it by the time I get back.

To join, visit the Master Post: To Kill A Mockingbird Read-Along over at Adam's. You can see the suggested reading schedule there, too.

Have you read this classic? 

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

REVIEW: Flowers From the Storm by Laura Kinsale

Published 1992 by Avon Historical Romance.

This book is my July selection for the #TBRChallenge hosted by Wendy the SuperLibrarian. This month's theme is 'Romance Classic,' interpretation of which is left to the participant. Wendy is very laid back like that. I chose Flowers From the Storm by Laura Kinsale for my classic pick because it was published over a decade ago and is still widely mentioned and read by romance readers today. I so glad that I finally read this book, which I adored.

Christian Langland is the Duke of Jervaulx and a wealthy rake with no regard for morals. He's also a brilliant mathematician who at the opening of the novel is collaborating with a blind Quaker named John Timms on a mathematics paper. John Timms' twenty-five year old spinster daughter, Archimedea 'Maddy' Timms serves as the messenger of papers between her father and the duke. Although she never sees nor speaks to Langland, she is fully aware of his immoral behavior and as a Quaker she is quite repulsed by his character. However, her father has the utmost admiration for Langland's intellect and the two get alone quite well. When Maddy and her father are invited to join Langland for dinner one evening, she finds herself attracted to him nonetheless, even despite her unease with his flirting.

Later that very same night, Langland suffers from what is very likely a stroke when he is confronted by his mistress' husband in a duel. He is so severely impaired that his family allows society to believe him dead when he is actually only suffering from aphasia, or the inability to understand or express speech, written or spoken. His family ultimately confine him to an asylum because no one understands him, nor does he understand them. Out of extreme frustration, Langland lashes out violently so now not only does his family think him mentally disturbed, but violent also.

Months later, Maddy and her father are visiting Blythedale Halle, the asylum that Cousin Edward oversees when she happens upon the cell of a man who turns out to be none other than the Duke of Jervaulx. Maddy has intense empathy for Langland and in fact, is quickly able to discern that he is not so much mentally disturbed but rather extremely frustrated and scared about his inability to communicate. She feels a strong calling to help Langland overcome his disabilities and even be released from the asylum so the safety and well being of Christian Langland becomes her mission. Over the course of this lengthy novel, Maddy and Christian go through all sorts of chaotic, dangerous and frustrating situations, all of which is hugely stressful for both of them. For Christian, he is a brilliant man trapped in his own mind, so to speak, racked by incredible frustration as his family and society strip him of his dignity, power, autonomy and certainly his money. For Maddy, she is a simple woman of faith who has been raised with a strict set of beliefs that challenge her every step of the way as she is constantly questioning herself. To do what she feels is right in her heart or what she was taught to be right by her Quaker faith. Their story is one full of self-doubts, mistakes and manipulations, but in the end, love does conquer all.

It's pretty obvious why Flowers From the Storm has captured the hearts of so many romance readers over the years. Both the plot and characters are quite unique. I loved the fact that Kinsale doesn't slip one bit in the authenticity of her characters. That is, Langland's aphasia improves only slightly, and only as much as would be realistically expected within the time frame of his stroke. The reader is then forced to read Langland's broken speech on the page just as Maddy and the others would experience it. We are left with the same frustrations and misunderstandings that we would be if we were actually in the story ourselves. No narration shortcuts, which makes his character and story that much more believable. Similarly, Maddy's devotion to her Quaker faith is realistically steadfast. So much so that I was actually starting to think she was going to let this chance at love slip away just because of the rules of her faith, an outcome that's actually quite realistic even by today's standard, but not for me and likely not for most romance readers. While I often felt some frustration in Maddy's slowness to come around to acknowledging that her love for Christian is acceptable in the eyes of God, her struggles with her faith and with trusting herself were also very believable.

While I thoroughly enjoyed reading this story, at times I felt the pacing was a bit long winded and at times I thought both Christian and Maddy left too many of their issues unspoken between them. Considering the immense struggles they were both facing, I expected them to share more elaborate and thought-provoking revelations about themselves and each other. Flowers From the Storm is definitely a memorable story and definitely worth reading!

4+ out of 5 stars